Wednesday, April 10, 2013

Partnership Development Coach

You get the prize if you can figure out what we are doing in this picture :)
This is an old picture of my good friend, Jill. Once upon a time we were roommates in college. That was 15 years ago! These days we don't get together or talk as often as we should and so when we do we are likely to talk for hours :) She has the business-brain and tends to be more detail-oriented that I am. She also has been out to visit me in Indonesia. So when I needed to pick someone to be my partnership development coach she was one my first thoughts. Plus it was a good excuse for us to "have" to spend some time together!

A partnership development coach is required by my organization during this time of support-raising. For example, she went with me to PDX (partnership development training) and helped me design my presentation. She has also helped me plan and kept me accountable during these long days of preparation. Her "job" essentially was to help me leave, which of course means she has to say goodbye, which has to be one of the tougher jobs out there! It has been a blessing to have someone walk this journey with me. Hopefully, she will again get to visit Indonesia as well.

(For those who are wondering the picture above was taken during Jill's visit to Indonesia. Unfortunately, her visit happened to coincide with my getting sick and so in the picture we were actually in a hospital in Malaysia. I was about to have minor surgery to remove a lump near the initial bite that we thought might help us figure out what was making sick. Not exactly what we had planned for her visit, but it was nice to have a friend with me.)


Thursday, April 4, 2013

Intolerance

Prayercast: Indonesia. A special prayer in Indonesian and English with video from Indonesia. (for those reading this in an RSS reader or on your email you might need to click on the link to the blog to see the video)

"A Christian, a Muslim and an atheist sounds like the beginning of joke. Instead, it could be the beginning of a broader-based struggle for freedom of religion and belief, in the face of rising religious intolerance around the world."

That is the opening paragraph from this recent story in the Huffington Post about increasing intolerance in Indonesia. In the article the author shares three stories of intolerance against an atheist, a church, and a Muslim sect in Indonesia.

Enshrined in the Indonesian Constitution is a model of tolerance and moderation. With 6 recognized religions (Islam, Protestantism, Catholicism, Hinduism, Buddhism, and Confucianism) and 768 people groups, it is key to keeping the peace.

Recently, however things have been changing. Several churches have recently come under persecution for not having the correct permits due to a change in law requiring that they have support of the neighborhood around them. This has led to problems like those faced by the Filadelfia church in the Huffington Post article as well the church in this article from The Jakarta Post.

Voice of the Martyrs (VOM) describes Indonesia as a hostile nation. On the VOM web page (under restricted nations) you can read more stories about persecution. Please be praying that the government of Indonesia would recommit themselves to guaranteeing religious freedom. Please also be praying that Christians in Indonesia will not be intimidated or discouraged. Finally, please be praying that the darkness will be lifted from the hearts and minds of the lost and that the light of Jesus will be revealed to them.

Friday, March 29, 2013

Easter 2013

Today is Good Friday and for most of the past week I have thinking about what to post this week. There are some interesting articles and stories about churches in Indonesia recently but I am still wrestling with what to say about them and plus it doesn't quite seem like the right topic for the Easter Weekend. Please do this for me though - be praying for churches in Indonesia this weekend. Several are being forbidden from meeting. Pray that they will find a safe place to worship and there will not be violence.

Because it is Easter weekend I wanted to share an interesting video I came across. Using a simple media they share the Gospel message. It is amazing and touching! Please take time to watch it, if you haven't already.



I am looking forward to spending the Easter weekend with almost all of my family (the sister who is a nurse has to work of course). The weather looks like it will be beautiful. I pray that your Easter is a blessed time of remembrance of what our Savior did for us.

Friday, March 15, 2013

Spiritual Genealogy & Thoughts on Mentoring


During Pre-Departure Training we had a morning devotional by Marty Shaw, the Asia International Ministry Director. During the time, he had each one in the group tell who had shared the Gospel with them. For many it was a parent, a teacher, or other concerned person in their life. Some shared how the seed had been planted many times before it took root.

Marty then turned his focus to the plaque picture above. This plaque hangs in the lobby of the WorldVenture home office. It lists the missionaries who have passed away while serving. Some from accidents like plane or car crashes and others from illness like cancer. Some spent years serving and others passed away just a few short months after arriving.

He then asked us to consider the seeds they had planted during their time of service. Many of course did not see those planted seeds take root. Yet whether they served a few months or a lifetime they followed God's call. Marty then reminded us that we too are planting seeds not only here and now but will also in our future places of service.

For me this devotional brought up the whole issue of mentoring. One of my roles at Bethesda Hospital will be teaching and mentoring nursing students. I have had some great mentors in my life, but have been struggling because I don't feel like I am qualified to be a mentor myself.

As I struggled with what it looks like to be a mentor the Lord blessed and spoke to me in a couple of special ways. One was a Facebook message from a nurse who I had worked with more than five years ago now. She said in her message:
"I can still clearly remember as a new grad night nurse, you were a great teacher. I remember one night I sat down at a back computer station and you showed me a tree of all the complicated IV lines (back at that time, taking care of post bone marrow transplant patients was so overwhelming.. )"

Then came an email in response to one of my email prayer updates from another friend and nurse. She said:
 I learned quickly at work to seek you out for advice, questions, or concerns because I respected your opinion, trusted your judgement and wisdom (and knowledge too!), and knew that you would help me really understand and learn what it was I needed to know and how to best care for my patient. I also knew that you would never make me feel silly for asking what may be a silly question, and would validate my concerns. Many of my patients benefited from some of these ways you helped me grow. And I'll bet you had no idea! 

She is right - I had no idea! :)

Finally, the Lord spoke to me from His Word one Sunday morning. The pastor was talking about church leadership and specifically the role of elders in the church. One of the final verses he shared that morning was: 
Remember your leaders who spoke the word of God to you. Consider the outcome of their way of life and imitate their faith. Hebrews 13:4

The words of those friends and God's Word helped me to realize that I don't have to feel like I know how to be a mentor or think of myself as a mentor to be one. I have been blessed by some amazing mentors in my own life, women and men who are walking lives of faith. They listen and speak words of wisdom. I am called as a Christian to imitate the Lord Jesus and the faithful role models that I have in my life. In reproducing that in my own life being a mentor just comes naturally.

Friday, February 22, 2013

Congratulations

I just received this email from WorldVenture:

Congratulations on having completed all your growth goals, integration reports, and the trainings that are required prior to the departure clearance process. You have done well, and we praise God and rejoice with you! 

Keep up the good work as you move from 82% to 100%, gaining more financial partners on your ministry team. As you know, we want you to be fully funded at 100% per WorldVenture figures before you receive departure clearance for Indonesia.

The email goes on to outline the next few steps that I will need to complete before I can buy plane tickets, which of course includes being at 100% in support. Please be praying with me that the remaining amount can be raised quickly. At this point I am pretty much out of leads and am just waiting on the Lord on to provide!

Tuesday, February 12, 2013

The Marriage Question

I recently got asked the question again. (Well ok actually this blog post was written back in early January, but I just haven't gotten it edited and posted.) Anyway back to the question...

As part of my testimony with groups I usually share a bit about how I was living my plan for my life and how I had it all figured out. It was the typical American dream of having the perfect family and perfect job. Then God interrupted that plan. So, I recently shared that testimony with the youth group at one of my supporting churches in White Salmon, WA. During the question and answer time I got asked the question. It usually goes something like this, "so how do you feel about not being married" or sometimes it has a bit of an edge to it like "so you are planning on living in a place like Indonesia and you aren't married."

There are times when the question just rolls off my back and doesn't bother me. There are other times though when I struggle with the question and with the fact that I am not married. It seems to go in cycles. There are times when I am completely content being single and other times I struggle with being single. There is that dream as a woman of marriage and children. A dream that doesn't end but becomes less likely because I will soon be leaving for Indonesia. As that realization sunk in during December I began once again to struggle with my singleness.

Once again though God brought me comfort. In December, I was blessed to take some time away at the Oregon Coast for some spiritual rest. While I was there I received an email from a friend who had also served as a single woman at Bethesda Hospital. She is now married with two children and continues to minister in Indonesia alongside her husband. I had written an email to her recently expressing some of those thoughts and feelings. Her reply was a great reminder and part of the Lord's response to my worry and fear. He reminded me through her words that living this life is an adventure and one that I don't walk alone, even as a single woman. I was reminded of the countless Indonesian babies and their moms that I will be blessed to spend time with and care for.

The lyrics of this song by Francesca Battistelli really sums it up well...




Oh and as an added bonus to keep me busy, there will also be 180 Indonesian teenage nursing students who would needs lots of love and mentoring :) 



Monday, February 4, 2013

Pre-Departure Training Part II

As I mentioned in my last post, this training I just finished was my last! The purpose was to help us through this transition and to help us prepare to live that first year well. So we had sessions on things like good mourning, how to say goodbye well, and learning about the transition/chaos bridge. I will share more about some of those topics in the future. We also spent time talking about how to help kids transition (for the parents) and about some of the pitfalls of this transition. There were definitely some moments when reality sank in that this journey has not and will not be easy at times. There will be moments of loneliness and grief. There will also be moments of joy and laughter. Many of these emotions will be intensified because of the transition we are experiencing. It is good to know and hopefully remember the lessons we have learned here at this training during those times.

Our Group with our IMDs

There were two very special times during this training that I will remember for a long time to come. One I will have to share about later because it deserves its own blog post. The other though I want to share about in this post.

During that first afternoon all of the appointees gathered in a circle and we were surrounded by the International Ministry Directors (IMDs - see previous blog post if you don't know what that is) and the home office staff we have been working with closely during this time of preparation. They laid their hands on us and prayed for us. They have been through this transition and have years of experience, so they have an intimate knowledge of this journey. Because of this experience and knowledge there prayers were full of encouragement and wisdom. Here are a few pictures of those moments.




















This training was a great reminder that WorldVenture cares and that there is power in prayer. They care not just about the work we are going to do, but they care about us. They know that this transition will be rough at times but they also know through prayer we will not only survive but thrive.

A big thank you to Josh Tokar for sharing his pictures from pre-departure training!